Love can be confusing sometimes…

I have probably asked this question like a million times already; What is love? I have heard several explanations…love is a feeling or love is a decision. I have also heard several descriptions of love like ‘love is blind’ or ‘love is not blind, it can see what others cannot see.’ Sometimes it gets a…

Love can be confusing sometimes…

I have probably asked this question like a million times already; What is love? I have heard several explanations…love is a feeling or love is a decision. I have also heard several descriptions of love like ‘love is blind’ or ‘love is not blind, it can see what others cannot see.’ Sometimes it gets a…

Dealing with the pressure of expectations

“I expected more from you!” Have those words ever been directed at you? Perhaps you yourself have said those words to someone else? Expectations, spoken or unspoken are woven intricately into the fabric of our lives and relationships with other people in the world. We all have them, and we all place them on people…

Can I be honest?

So it’s been confusing to me when I hear some preachers say,  ‘Don’t say what you feel, speak Faith.’ While I agree that we should not focus too much on our feelings, does that mean I cannot be honest with God, myself and others? I was reading Everyday with Jesus by Selwyn Hughes and he…

What will be will not be

Have you ever been going through a tough time in your life, perhaps waiting for a job, or going in for surgery and your friend, in an attempt to ‘comfort’ you tells you ‘ what will be will be.’  For the life of me, I cannot understand how that is comforting. I would rather s/he…